The media was on Sunday awash with reports that Mrs. Oyakhilome had
filed a suit at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue
House, High Holborn, London, UK on the grounds of “unreasonable
behavior” and ”adultery”, against her husband, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome.

And so far, Nigerians have reacted to the crisis by going on social media to express their shock and disbelief.
While some condemned the crisis, others had encouraging words for both parties.
Reacting
to the development, a certain Briareios, who claims to be an insider on
facebook, said “According to people in the know, family members o, they
have been separated for fifteen years. They were just saving face for
the sake of the ministry but it looks like the wife has had enough”.
Another facebook user Joel said “the crisis only shows that men of God are also human beings.
“This
will only show that we are all humans- Pastors, Reverends, Bishops and
so on. All the same, the story is quite disturbing bearing in mind that
churches and mosques are the places we look up to in this part of the
world as places where mentors for our younger generations shall come
from. The wife should have had this in mind and spared the country and
our society of this embarrassment by walking away quietly. That of
course would have been a sacrifice as a Christian. Christianity teaches
us that whatever situation we find ourselves is a way of bearing the
cross. Both of them should as a matter of urgency reconcile to save
their followers and members of this huge embarrassment.”
Also
reacting, one Kayode Olusola, said he was not surprised that weighty
allegation like adultery is rocking Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s family.
Olusola said he had had course to express doubt over the man of God since his “infamous” position on masturbation.
“This
is a person who claimed masturbation is not a sin. I think what is
happening now is another confirmation of what many of us have said even
before now”, he said.
In his own reaction, a commentator on the
online platform, Nairaland, Sammy Johnson, said “I am not surprised
about this news. Christ Embassy is a very promiscuous church. Most of
the female members dress like they are in clubs and most of the guys
attend the church to chase women. There is no dressing code and I see
guys wearing earring and braiding their hairs in Christ Embassy. I used
to attend that church in my campus and there is a lot of fornication
going on in that church. But Pastor Chris messed up if he really cheated
on his wife because he has a very beautiful and educated wife. why
would any sane man cheat on that kind of wife?”
Agreeing
with Sammy, another Nairaland user, Hopelink1 said “I am not surprised
at what I read today. The man does not have respect for the body of
Christ. He shunned the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria, PFN leaders
when they wanted to broker peace between himself and Chris Okotie when
they were having a face-off. Pastor Adeboye, Bishop Okwonkwo and other
PFN leaders were shocked when he ignored their call. He even said he was
not under PFN”, Johnson noted.
A Facebook user, Cecilia Popoola,
described the development as a machination of the devil to dampen the
spirit of Christians in the country.
“When a man of God of Pastor
Chris Oyakhilome’s status and his wife, Anita failed to find a way of
resolving their marital problem amicably, what that means is that the
devil is determined to deal a devastating blow on the children of God.
“This
calls for a serious prayer. Christians must unite in prayer on behalf
of this family for God to intervene. The marriage must not break”, she
declared.
In his own reaction, Samuel Whesu, a member of the
Christ Embassy on the church’s facebook page said “it is quite
unfortunate that this is happening to the family. One major lesson we
can learn from this scenario is that nobody has all it takes to make a
marriage work. The fact that you are a man of God does not make you
immune to marital crisis. People must realize this and stop gloating
over the issue. No sane person will rejoice over another person’s
marital crisis”, he posited.
Ogboh Sandra, also reacting on
Facebook, said “The report has been on for some time and one would have
expected that the couple would have managed the situation well before
getting to this point. It is not only about their family alone, it is
about their flock, it is about Christians generally. Ministers of God of
their repute are not expected to send such wrong signal about marriage
because marriage is an institution ordained by God and as such it must
not be brought to disrepute by children of God”.
An anonymous
observer, who reacted to our previous report of the story, said “Please
Anita sheathe your sword….if Hillary Clinton can forgive her husband’s
alleged infidelity, why not you who is a crusader of the Gospel…pls
don’t give opportunity to the devil to discredit the call of God in your
ministry. It is a redeemable situation that can be settled amicably,
assuming what we are hearing and reading are true”.
While another
person, Baby, argued that “If it was a woman who committed adultery,
would you have given the same advice? U people don’t know how much women
tolerate in marriages yet u expect the woman to always forgive…. Men
should also realise that some women out of fustration too commit
adultery……if u can truthfully say that pastor Chris should forgive Anita
if it was the other way round then by all means I support you, but if
not she has a right to leave if she is tired….. They have been living
apart and she has to move on and look for love too….. If pastor Chris is
satisfying himself sexual she also has needs…”
Someone
also said “Mere visiting a Christ Embassy church or seeing its members,
your heart will be forced to think about séx. How can a church allow
people to wear micro-mini skirts with big bosoms and nípples
almost
falling out? Why won’t the woman suspect the man of adultery? She’s a
woman and she knows how decent women should dress. One pastor said
‘Christ Embassy is a social club’ where the name of Jesus is just
mentioned. Well i dont know how true; but it is bad to allow ladies to
wear just pants to church in the name of vigil and not expect the women
to suspect the men(their husbands): dressing matters in marriage,
dressing matters in heaven: Jesus did not come to make people Unclad and
Unclad by faith, He came to make us all holy by faith”