SEE RESPONSES.....What will you do if your spouse’s sex tape leaks online?

hehehehe......A sex tape is an amateur pornographic video recording involving two or more persons which has, intentionally or unintentionally, been made available publicly. Such video tapes are often released without the consent of their subjects. In recent times, there have been a rising number of sex tapes leaking online. Fidelis Chidi blog asked some Nigerians what they would do if they saw sex tapes of their spouses with their exes

I won’t kill myself over it – Egbayelo Quasar

I cannot imagine if it were to be the sex video of my spouse and I. That would be so bad. But if it were to be that of my husband with his ex, I will not kill myself over it. I will ignore whatever is leaked online. I will not fight my husband since the past is gone.

I must confirm it was in the past – Ayobami Ladipo

For me, whatever is termed ‘past’ remains in the past. Even though I will feel pained, but whatever can’t be reversed needs to be ignored. The best way to handle such situation is to ignore the leaked video and give my wife the needed support at that period. This approach will work if the said video is confirmed to be in the past and not a video of her cheating on me presently. If the latter is the case, I will not take it lightly at all.

I’ll ignore it and love my husband more – Olawoyin Mariam

There is nothing to do since the deed has already been done. What I cannot fathom is why someone would do a sex video and post it online. Anyone who does that should be an animal and suffering from psychosis because anybody in his/her right sense will not do such. I will move on and not let the incident distract my family. It might be that the lady is not yet married and wants to ruin my home. I will ignore the sex tape and love my spouse more because that is the only way to get through such situation.

I’ll divorce her – Segun Fakiyesi

Anything done in this era of technology deserves a thorough investigation. If the video is really true, she is gone forever. I will divorce her without thinking twice. The shame should not even allow her to stay and I will go further to do DNA test for all the children she gave me. I don’t care if it was her past relationship. I will not take that nonsense because it is bad and it shows the type of friends she had in the past.

I’ll defend my husband – Adebimpe Adebayo

This is a very bad situation to imagine, but there is nothing new under the sun. It is expected of me to have known about my spouse’s previous relationships and if I already did that, the video would not surprise me. If my spouse is committed, loving and caring, I will stand to defend him. Many people are out there looking for ways to scatter homes. One should be careful.

I’ll ensure she regrets it – Samuel Salami

At first, I will ask myself, ‘Was she a pornography star in the past?’ If not, why would she be filmed while having sex with someone? If she is a good person and I love her so much, I will get mad at her and ensure she fully regrets her action before I can think of forgiving her. A video like that is difficult to erase from the Internet. People will keep referring to it and it can damage one’s career.

His past is gone – Olabisi Badmus

I will not do anything at all. I will not be interested to watch the video. That was his past and his past is gone. Even though I will feel bad because he is my spouse, I will accept the consequences. I also have my bad deeds in the past, so it is nothing new. The world should not come to an end over this.

I may let it go – Gideon Bright

First, it is expected I should know her past, maybe she had engaged herself with some bad groups and she couldn’t tell me due to fear. If we have not married, I will get mad at her and may quit the relationship. But if she had told me almost everything about her past, the news of the video leak might not be totally strange to me. I may overlook it and let go of the past. I will even help her out through moral support.

I’ll take it up – Abisola Mariam

Well, I will not use that as a basis to separate from my husband since he is not the one who uploaded it online. I would like to know the person behind it and I will take up the matter with them. Their mission is to ruin my marriage. I know I may never get the person who did such, but I will leave them to God for judgement.

Everyone has a past – Olaolu Oluyomi

This is a very serious issue, but I will stand as a man and put things back in place. I will find out if the video is real before taking any step. But I will remember one important thing — I also have my past as a human being. If it was her past, I will let it go and stand by her. She is my wife and I shouldn’t chase her away because of that. Real men forgive.