hehehehe....It is expected that before you go into
marriage, you should know your partner properly, including their health
status. Of course, as humans, nobody is perfectly healthy. But what
happens if you discover after marriage that your partner, who is
terminally ill, failed to disclose their health status to you?
I may find it hard to forgive him
Chukwu Bernice
It is not just an illness but a terminal
one. It will be so hard for me to ever trust him and if he dies
eventually, his death will not be on my neck. I will let his family
members know because I am sure some of them will be aware that he has
that illness. While we were dating, he should have told me if he really
loved me and I would be left to decide whether to marry him or not. I
don’t think I will ever forgive him because it is a painful thing.
However, I’ll try my best to cater for him while he lives.
I’ll take it as my fate
Ebenezer Olaniji
I will take it as my fate because God
knows everything about our coming together before He chose her for me. I
will bear everything because marriage is for better or for worse and I
would have done what she did for a reason like hers. I won’t even take
it up with her. I will only find her possible means of surviving the
illness because she has become my love.
I’ll take care of him
Nzoma Alice
Marriage is for better or for worse, but
it was expected of him to have told me. I wouldn’t have done such to
him. But if it has happened that way, I will not kill myself. Life goes
on. Probably if he had told me earlier, I would have assisted him.
Still, I will support him since he has become my husband. Because he has
become the lover of my life, I will spend my last money on him.
I’ll not live in the past
Roland Idimi
I will only look at the actual condition
of the illness because that is the most important thing to me. I will
not dwell in the past, I will find the means to support her. If she
weren’t my wife but my family member, I wouldn’t watch her die or
abandon her. But she should have told me. I will gladly support her so
her life could be extended.
I’ll still love him with my life
Adeola Kolawole
Love is so powerful, especially genuine
one. So far I love him, I will not even look at the past or why he
didn’t tell me; what will be my goal is to find possible solutions
because when there is life, there is hope. My priority will be how he
will be better and not worry myself on what he did wrong. If it will
take me to go to the prayer mountain or fast, then I am ready because I
love him and not ready to lose him.
I hate deceit
Kamisi Frederick
If I had the illness, I would be open to
her because she is the one I want to marry. Every relationship should
not be built on deceit. It will be very disheartening for her to do that
to me. I will only seek the grace to forgive and assist her. But I
don’t like deceit. However, I will assist her because what has happened
has happened.
I’ll spend my last dime on him
Olowa Shola
This will be so painful, but then what
will I do than to forgive him? I am not ready to be a widow. I would
rather spend my last dime to save his life than watch him die. I can’t
even think of divorce. I would be happy if he had told me earlier but
what has happened has happened; going back is not the best. I will help
him with all my might starting from the day I find out and if he dies,
then I’ll be happy I have played my part. But I would not judge him at
all.
I can also do that for love
Micheal Edward
There is no big deal in what she has
done because it depends on individuals. I can equally do what she has
done for love — if that is her reason. I am sure she would not have told
me because she would not want to lose me and the relationship. I would
understand her if she did it for love. I will give her my support.
I’ll assist him to get better
Duduyemi Bukola
I will assist him with all I can
physically, financially, spiritually and in all other ways I can. But
truth be told, I was supposed to have known him physically, spiritually
and medically before we got married. Since it has happened, I will pray
for endurance and tolerance to have a happy home. I will do all my best
to keep him alive.
I’ll forgive her and move on
Adeleke Muyideen
It will be so hard, but I will have to
forgive her after some time. I will be happy if the illness is not a
transferable disease. If transferrable, I will go for a medical checkup
with my children to know if we are safe. If we are safe, we will try and
find means to treat her, who knows if luck will smile on her. Not
everyone who has a terminal disease dies. I will try my best for her,
not minding what she has done to me.
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