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If I found out he is cheating, I would kill him.....
I am gradually losing my man and the major challenge is I am just so busy. I do not have time for sex anymore. And this is neither deliberate nor intentional; the truth is that I do not even have time for myself either. My husband has complained for so long; he has done everything to make my schedule easier but things have remained the same. Now, he does not even bother to ask for sex any longer. I perceive he is satisfying himself elsewhere and if this is the case, I am going to do something bad. That is why I am asking you to help before it is too late. Please help me because if I find out he is cheating, I will kill him

.Mrs. Mercy Kumuyali
I am sure you will do no such thing. Have you ever heard a phrase that says ‘a place for everything, everything in place and has its time?’ Yes, you have to put this phrase into place before you blow everything up in your marriage. Actually, finding time for sex is one of the major challenges of many extremely busy couples. However, organising tips can help you manage your time and activities better. Get into the habit of putting all your appointments and activities, including sex with your spouse on a calendar. Keep it in one spot and check it at least three times a day. Make it a habit to check at the same time each day. If you have a spouse who would love sex on a daily basis, then make a new “to do” list every day and try to keep your list realistic and at the same time, flexible, so you’ll have a good chance of getting to do everything and not leaving sex out. Arrange your tasks in order of importance, depending on the preference of your partner putting the most important tasks first. Assign each task a specific time of day; cross off each task when you complete it. Do not be intimidated by the idea of “getting organised.” Start by putting things back where they belong and throwing away things you don’t need, especially your bedroom. The truth is that if you keep items, they should have a home. If you place the survival of your marriage a top priority, sex will be part of your life. Use filing cabinets, labels, clear storage boxes and over-the-door organisers. Take 10 minutes each day to pick up and return items to their proper places. If you take it out, put it back. Keep a box for loose papers and other mislaid items to be put away. Go through it at the end of every day.  Schedule organisation time in your planner. Use a timer to manage your work sessions. Ask yourself whether you want to keep items or toss them off. If you’re not sure, put them in a separate box to go through later. Make rganisation a daily habit. Place a small table or bookshelf near the entryway of your home. Put a tray or basket on top of it to hold important items such as keys, watches, glasses and phones. You can also use this area to hold other items you want to remember, such as intimate time with your beloved, lunchboxes, briefcases, important papers. Organising and simplifying your surroundings will help you reduce stress, find room for sex, reduce clutter, keep track of your belongings and remove some of the distractions that prevent you from focusing or giving time for your spouse. Simplifying can work for your schedule, too. Don’t start a new project or task until you’ve finished the current one. Try not to overschedule yourself with too many projects or tasks at once. You may need to practise saying no to new tasks to stay focused.
Please I need your sincere answer
Please I need your sincere and honest answer;
can PRP injections really give me a bigger penis? My small organ has made me to miss potential wives. As soon as they see it, they run away
.Worried and depressed soul
 The fact still remains that if you’re unhappy with what you’ve got down below, you’re not alone, so I will first advise that you do not get depressed unnecessarily. A lot of guys want to wake up from this same nightmare and increase the size of their penis by all means. They’re constantly on the lookout for a new product or treatment that will give them a bigger package. According to research, there is a new product in the market called platelet rich plasma (PRP) which is injected into the penis to make it bigger. Widely marketed as the Priapus Shot™, invented by Dr. Charles Runels, the research is still on to really  prove that this new treatment will make the penis bigger, strengthen it or increase its stamina, sensation and pleasure. Researchers are still looking into the side effect and so on. You may want to ask about the risks of trying it. Researchers say it has deadly risk, so for a lot of men who have been searching for a way to increase their size, this treatment may sound like the answer. But there is no evidence to show it is scientifically proven to work as claimed and it has not been thoroughly tested for safety. Additionally, at a cost of several thousands per shot, it’s an expensive gamble. I would rather you stay in your familiar territory and make use of the available natural herbs that have been in use for decades and people have seen good results. Unless new research comes to light that has been proven with no side effect, please make use of natural resources
.How do I plan my menstrual cycle?
Please Funmi, I am getting confused by the day. How do I plan my menstrual cycle?
I have so much headache getting pregnant and the doctor said there is nothing wrong with my husband and me but that I should plan my cycle properly. Please help.
Indubisi Alice
Getting pregnant is all about patiently timing yourself, so as to make sure the conditions are right for egg and sperm to meet. Your menstrual cycle can give you clues about when your body is ready to start the process. The first step is to learn the days when you’re most fertile. Most women have a 28-day menstrual cycle. That means you have about six days each month when you can get pregnant. That includes the day one of your ovaries releases an egg, called ovulation, and the five days before. Having sex within that window is key. To figure it out, you’ll need to chart your menstrual cycle and record how long it lasts. Day 1 is the first day of your period. Since the length of your cycle can vary slightly from month to month, it’s best to keep track for a few months. Once you have an average, subtract 18 days from the length of your shortest cycle. This is the first day you’re likely to be fertile. Next, subtract 11 days from the length of your longest cycle. This is the last day you’re likely to be fertile. Having sex between those two dates will give you the best shot at getting pregnant. Listen to your body, it’s a very good idea to pay attention to the signs that your body is ready to ovulate. Basal body temperature (BBT): This is your temperature first thing in the morning. Just after you ovulate, it rises slightly — sometimes by less than a degree — and stays higher until your period starts. If you record your temperature every day, you can spot the subtle changes that mean one of your ovaries has released an egg. How to take your BBT goes thus: first use a regular body thermometer to measure your body temperature. Take your temperature at the same time each morning, always before you get out of bed. (To make it easier, keep the thermometer under your pillow.) Even getting up to go to the bathroom can affect your body temperature. So can smoking, drinking, or getting a bad night’s sleep. Remember, your BBT won’t tell you exactly when you’ve ovulated and it may take a couple of months before you start to see a pattern. You’re most likely to get pregnant two or three days before your ovary releases an egg, and then another 12 to 24 hours after that. When your temperature has spiked for three days, your chances of conceiving drop.Look out for the things that come out of your vagina such as your cervical mucus, the same hormones that control your menstrual cycle also affect the mucus that your cervix makes. Just before and during ovulation, the amount, colour and texture of it changes to make it easier for you to get pregnant. As your ovaries prepare to release an egg, your cervix makes more mucus. A few days before ovulation, it may be sticky and cloudy or whitish. Then, right before you ovulate, the mucus gets slippery, like egg whites. It may stretch across your fingers if you spread them apart. This stage usually lasts three or four days, which is when you’re most likely to get pregnant. This is how to check your cervical mucus: use your fingers or a tissue to check the opening of your vagina for mucus a few times a day. (Make sure your hands are clean before you start.) Write down whether it’s cloudy and sticky or clear and slippery. Then chart your cervical mucus changes and your basal body temperature to get a clear picture of where you are in your cycle. Always keep in mind that other things, like breastfeeding or using douches or other hygiene products, can change your mucus.