Abosede Ogundare
I’ll call off the wedding
I will definitely call off the wedding! It shows he still intends to marry the lady in question. After cancelling the wedding, I will suggest he goes for counselling because he still has his ex in mind. I can’t risk having another woman’s memories tormenting my husband. Wedding is just a day affair, while marriage is a lifetime journey. It is not too late to back out.
Faith Olape
He must make correction immediately
I will make sure that he makes correction immediately if it is truly a mistake. I will tell him to openly say it again because that is not my name. After that, that will be the end of the matter. I will not ask him afterwards. I will see it as a mistake because anyone is bound to make one. I will only continue to pray for a successful marriage.
Salami Abiodun
I’ll forgive him
I will pretend I didn’t notice to save my day because it is going to be a big disgrace. Satan is good at destroying what is good, so it’s better not to take the mistake serious. Later, I will ask him not to do such again because it can destroy a marriage. I’ll forgive him and forget about it. I don’t see any big deal in that because I could have also made such a mistake.
Alade Oluwaseun
I’ll find it hard to trust him again
I will be so angry but I will try to save the day. After that, I will call a family meeting to question him if he is still interested in the ex, to know if he still loves her. If he says yes, I will seek a divorce before it is too late, but if he says no, then he must come out openly to apologise that he was very sorry. However, I will find it hard to trust him again.
Ojerinde Ibukunoluwa
There is no point going forward
There is no point going forward. There is nothing to forgive in this situation; he mentioned the name of the person his heart belongs to, so there is no point forgiving him just because I love him. Love is not good when it is one-sided. It is a dicey situation. Marriage must not be rushed into or treated with levity.
Olubenga Awosusi
I may break up with her
I will pretend I didn’t hear it. But after the honeymoon, she must tell me the truth of the matter. If she can tell the truth that there’s nothing between her and her ex again, I will forgive her and move on. I may not even believe her even if she says so because for her to mention her ex’s name, it means they are still seeing each other. It all depends on her if I will continue the relationship or break up with her.
Joyboy Olakunle
The wedding is over
I will be very mad at her. The wedding is over. What sort of mistake is that? I will believe that she still has something to do with her ex. It’s not a matter to be overlooked due to all the time we have been together. I won’t take it easy with her. She has to go because she has stylishly said her heart is not with me.
Williams Oluwadara
To go ahead with the wedding is dangerous
At first, I will be so mad at her because I won’t believe my ears. I will call off the wedding immediately and go into isolation for some days to calm my nerves and then move on. I think she is not ready to take me as her husband because her heart still belongs to the person she mentioned. Therefore, I will not be ready to force her against her wish.
Femi Sodeyinde
She’s not supposed to make such mistake
At first, I will be so angry, but I will try to save the day by keeping calm. I’ll ask her afterwards why she made the mistake. I will agree with her that it is a mistake but let her know she is not supposed to make such. If from the look of things it’s just a mere mistake, I’ll move on.
Adebisi Adebayo
I’ll play along
All eyes are on us that day. It is our day. I will play along and wait for her to correct herself. If she is able to do that, it means we have saved the day. Afterwards, I will ask her what her intention was and why she did that. I won’t count it as a big deal. I will advise her to tell her ex that she is now married and not available for him again.
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