Hehehe.....if i catch you...A man recently walked into my office with
his wife and looked straight into my eyes and said, ‘Please can you
teach me how to make my wife experience a breast orgasm?’
‘Breast orgasm’, I asked? And he nodded
and repeated after me and said, ‘Yes Madam, breast orgasm’. He
continued, ‘My marriage clocked four years yesterday and I have done all
to make my wife respond to me. But she seems not to be interested in
sex with me in particular, because, according to her, I only waste her
time and kill her libido during sex. And after long hours of persuasion
and pleading, she would simply say her idea of good sex is when I make
her experience breast orgasm. She said that was what her former
boyfriend used to do to make her enjoy sex to the ultimate level.
‘Madam,
apart from the fact I was psychologically deflated that my wife still
preferred another man on bed or still carried the memories of her former
lover, I also want to learn and do better,’ he said.
The breasts are one of the erogenous
zones and while some women are able to reach orgasm from breast
stimulation alone, some others may not be able to. The idea of some
women experiencing breast orgasm with or without any genital stimulation
could sound stressful and perplexing to many husbands who do not see
any reasons for foreplay or love play. But this is, by 80 per cent, one
of the many libidoral fantasies of a good number of married women. The
fear of, ‘how will my husband respond to this if I bring up the
subject’, has incapacitated this idea from the mind of many of these
wives.
The orgasm this category of women
normally feel is not just in their nipples, but throughout their
breasts, though more intense around the areolas. Scientifically, the
breasts can swell up to 25 per cent when a woman is aroused. This boost
makes the breasts super sensitive, and quite larger. Nipple stimulation
actually activates the same region of the brain as clitoral, vaginal and
cervical stimulation do. Research has discovered that stimulation of
the nipple activates an area of the brain known as the genital sensory
cortex. This is the same brain region activated by stimulation of the
clitoris, vagina and cervix. What this means is that women’s brains seem
to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way. In the light
of this, it is not at all surprising that many wives are aroused by
having their nipples rightfully touched and that, for some, this may be
enough to lead to orgasm. During this time, the nipple actually goes
from a pale erected organ to a deeper manner, the more a woman is
aroused. This is true because the blood flow increases when a woman is
turned on. This sexy gentle nipple stimulation may be what it takes to
send many wives over the edge for orgasm and the desire for passionate
sex. As a matter of fact, this is the most compensatory help for many
circumcised wives.
However, just as breasts come in all
shapes, sizes and colours, wives’ preferences during breast play do
differ. Majority of women may love having their nipples caressed while
some might find this not important. Also, breast sensitivity changes
with women’s menstrual cycles, so what some wives may literally like
this week, may be a piss off the next week. The mysterious rhythm of a
woman’s body is kind of exciting. It is very needful for the husband to
understudy this and be equipped with relevant facts.
A woman’s breasts contain the same
trigger-happy nerves found in the clitoris making breast orgasm the
second most common form of orgasms for women. That is the reason the
nipples reach out for more when kissed, caressed or stimulated. But most
husbands simply ignore these magnificent twin globes in a rush to head
down south to get to where they think is the best possibility for
orgasm.
The woman’s breasts at any stage, (even
if the shape is pendulum, flat, small, sagged) have a direct hotline to
her clitoris and when breast play is done with skill and finesse, it can
lead to a dazzling multiple orgasm for her. At the very least, breast
and nipple stimulation can even over-raise the libido of a woman that
has undergone bad circumcision, and send her arousal soaring with
pleasure!
Just as there is no ‘one-size-fits-all’
bra, there isn’t any one method that will work for every wife all the
time. Breast sensitivity, hormonal changes, her personal preferences,
etc., will influence your choice of technique. If you, as the husband,
are not sure as at how best to proceed, you both can be naked and sit
facing each other in the nude and get her to show you what arouses her.
Think about it, inasmuch as you wouldn’t
like it if your wife just grabbed your penis out of nowhere and started
jerking it around roughly, she needs to be warmed up first by light,
soft and slow stimulation. And please don’t just do one thing over and
over. It may become too repetitive and boring, and even if she loved it
at first, after a while it would lose its effect. You’ll get the best
results by using a combination of different stimulation techniques.
You’re starting off soft, so try tracing
circles with the tip of your finger over her stomach and chest,
gradually moving in to the breasts and nipples.
Experiment with licking, nibbling,
sucking and stroking the neck, chest and nipple area. Assess her arousal
either by watching if her nipples rise, darken and intensify or through
the sex sounds she makes. You can also place your hands over hers and
ask her to show you how she wants to be pleasured.
Keep in mind that the more turned on she
becomes, the more sensation she would be able to endure. So start off
slowly and gently by using the feathery touch of your fingertips to
stroke the delicate skin of her breast. Slide your fingers down across
her breast, making slow, lazy circles over it; slide your palms in
circular motions around the entire breast area. Press firmly. You can
either do one breast at a time or use both hands and do both together.
Continue even after her nipples become erect. Cup as much of each breast
in your hands as possible and move them around. Massage them. Squeeze
them gently then more firmly. Massage the nipples with or without oil or
the saliva of your tongue. Press on them. Roll them gently between your
thumb and forefinger. Use firmer and firmer pressure. Use one hand to
encircle her breast and push it up and out similar to a push-up bra.
Slide your hands over her breasts,
cupping them with the palms of your hands. Knead them, cup them, and
massage them gently, then more firmly, varying your speed and pressure.
You should consider using a massage oil or lotion to make your hands
slide over her skin more easily. Use oil or lotion to begin stimulating
her nipples over and again. Run your fingers over them. Press them. Roll
them between your thumb and index finger. Remember to keep her
sensitivity in mind here and at all time. As much as you don’t want to
hurt her, you should try to give enough stimulation to make it really
pleasurable. Pull on them with slow-fast, repetitive strokes. It is all
about maximum masculine control and maximum feminine pleasure. One of
the beauties of this is that it helps many husbands with premature
ejaculation to be able to practice Kegel exercise at the same time this
is going on. Cup her breast with one hand and push it up. This has the
effect of pushing her nipple out making it firm and temptingly inviting.
Rotate it around in a circular motion with the pads of your fingers. At
this stage, you can now move on to using your mouth. Use your tongue to
lick her breast from the bottom all the way up and over her nipple.
Give her open mouth wet kisses all over her breasts and nipples. Run
your tongue softly over her nipples in a flat position. Then flex your
tongue and flick the nipple with it. For some categories of wives who
would love to be ‘fingered’, this is the right time to dip your finger
into her vagina and roll the finger inside her in the same manner you
are rolling your tongue around her nipple. This simple treat breaks the
idea of frigidity or any form of resistance from your wife. As a matter
of fact, it is at this stage she will cry out loud for more.
You can still proceed further by trying
to give her gentle love nibbles and bites on her breasts. Make your way
to her nipples and nibble on them gently. Try covering your teeth with
your wet lips first to test her sensitivity. If she has extremely
sensitive nipples or is in a sensitive phase in her cycle, you might
need to skip nibbling and biting all together because this could be
hurting her. If you’re not sure, ask her if the pressure is okay.
Suction your mouth around her nipple and
suck in and out. Run your tongue over the nipple while you suck. Kiss
and lick each breast and nipple. Flick her nipples with your tongue.
Gently bite then suckle her nipples then lick and blow on them. This
stage is also helpful for pregnant women who are in their last stage of
pregnancy as it help to soften their breast and make it succulent for
the child during breast feeding because of the systemic erection and
relaxation of the nipples.
Pull your lips and use them to make a
seal around the nipple. Suck in and then out without breaking the seal.
The nipple will feel alternating currents of vacuum and pressure. This
is the stage many menopausal wives feel like a new bride one more time
because it helps them to have deep sensations specially when the husband
tries stimulating the breasts of his menopausal wife orally, when she
is lying above you. What happens here is that her breasts will be more
sensitive when they are hanging down because of the increased blood
supply to the nipples. Some other categories of women find it highly
arousing when their husbands caresses their nipples with the tip of an
erect penis, while some women get aroused by having an erect penis
sliding in-between their well-oiled breasts as they are being squeezed
together.
Remember, although some wives can reach
orgasm from breast play, not all women would be able to. But there is no
harm in trying. However, don’t put pressure on yourself or her to
achieve this result. Just enjoy yourself! Breast play can also magnify a
clitoral or G spot orgasm, so any of these techniques can also be used
in combination with stimulating other parts of her body for a truly
intense experience.
These are ways husbands can learn how to
stimulate their wives’ breasts to the state and stage of powerful breast
orgasm. So what are you still waiting for? Get down together while I
eagerly await your feedback!
Questions and Answers
Hi Funmi,
The last time I mailed you, you took
quality time to explain the positive effect of locating and putting to
use my ‘G‘-spot on my marriage. Well, I did exactly what you advised me
to do with my husband. Few nights after, while having sex, we hit it as
he was thrusting extra slowly. It felt awesome, but then, it was like a
switch in my body came on, and l realised he was hitting my ‘G‘-spot
over and over with each stroke. When he noticed that l was in another
world, he made it a habit henceforth, the last one that drew us closer
was; I was lying on my back and my husband’s pointed finger was inside
me. He was moving his finger as if saying ‘come here sweetheart’. I felt
the tip rub against my vagina wall and an intense pressure built up.
Then, he entered me from behind, his penis somehow pointed directly
against my ‘G‘-spot, and the sensation was really intense. This is the
only way I can have a ‘G‘-spot orgasm and it always makes me want more.
Thanks a lot. Now, there are no excuses again from me. I do not only
look forward to it, I am the one calling for sex, regardless of the
stress and tension from work.
Daniel Koko
Can I really win this war of premature ejaculation?
I am 38 years old. I am married, but
seriously battling with premature ejaculation. It looks so
insurmountable I cannot sustain an erection after penetration for more
than one minute. Most of the time, it lasts between 30 and 45 seconds.
As of the time I am mailing you this letter, my wife has stopped
complaining and at the same time, stopped trying to help. Even when I
try to see if an erection can occur, her response is just killing. I
feel less than a man. I know that I am not satisfying her in bed. Way
before now, I use to have sex with her close to five times in a week and
that is when she was not having her menstrual period. This thing
started immediately when I started having sex. In the first month of our
marriage, I was still able to last between three and four minutes after
penetration. Ever since, I have not been able to repeat or surpass that
achievement. I thought it would get better over time and I assumed it
was because I was not sexually active before marriage. Unfortunately,
there has not been any improvement. Is there hope for me? We have no
children and I am afraid of my wife bringing in an illegitimate child as
my mine, because as of now, she seems sexually satisfied and does not
care if I ask for sex or not.
Mr. Adelokifu Alakuso
Mr Alakuso, I think before you give
up on the battle over premature ejaculation, get all the necessary
medical assistance, examinations and test and seek for natural remedies
and cure. Medicine is now improving on the cases of all and any type of
erectile dysfunction challenges. Many cases that have been written off
are getting fact base solutions. Kindly contact me for help. You will be
shocked that your case will become a history.
Can I inhale cancer cells drugs?
My husband is undergoing chemotherapy
treatment for prostate gland cancer. He is at the same time insisting I
use my mouth on his penis but I feel it is not safe. What if I
accidentally taste the cancer drug or cancer cell in his semen?
Mrs Irabuka Kudirati
Even though the drugs that are used
during chemotherapy are not excreted in semen in quantities that could
be dangerous, it is not safe to use your mouth on his penis while he is
undergoing chemotherapy. Using a condom on his penis might bail you out
if he is insisting.
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