Leah Jorgensen, 33, felt like a "freak" for her body and facial hair, so for years, she spent so much time shaving her entire body. She has polycystic ovary syndrome, which causes her to have male-pattern hair growth on her chest, her chin, and her stomach.
Leah’s look led to low self-esteem and insecurity and this stopped her from getting close to people. She didn’t have her first kiss until age 27 and avoided the dentist for twelve years. She continued to hide from the world until an accident made her realize it didn't really matter what she looks like.
"Because I have so much of it, it was very difficult to hide it. I developed a terrible case of anxiety and it really took a toll on my mental health. I had a bad experience with my doctor. She had never seen such an extreme case of hirsutism and she was startled and made a facial expression. She had a figure on a piece of paper and she drew where the hair was. I was so sensitive that it really upset me and made me feel like a freak."
"I was really convinced I would lose my friends and my family would disown me and I wouldn’t be able to get a job or a boyfriend, I would just live a miserable life alone."
She recalled: "I realized no one cared what I looked like. They just saw me as a person. It really helped me to get over it."
From that moment onwards she decided to stop shaving and hiding away her hair. Leah now embraces her hair, wearing low-cut, sleeveless tops and skirts with bare legs out in public without worrying about what people think.
"I realized that I never really disliked how the hair looked. The problem was not with the hair, it was with people’s perception of it," says Leah. I thought, 'Enough is enough.' I didn’t want to run from it anymore. People definitely stare or try to take photos but I expect that because you don’t really see women who look like me."
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