Finding a strange object like charm in the possession of one’s spouse may be frightening and could leads to confusion. If you find a bag of charms in your spouse’s wardrobe, will that be the end of the marriage or will you move on? Fidelis Chidi blog sought the opinion of some NigeriansI’ll separate from him
Akeju Lolade
I wouldn’t divorce my husband, but I will separate from him until he fully repents. Whatever reasons he gives, I will let him understand that he shouldn’t be with charms. I will stay away from him for a while. I will pray fervently for him to change from his bad deeds and that God should forgive him. I will leave the house for him so I don’t lose concentration. I will let him feel the pain of what he has done. I will forgive him after I am convinced that he has repented.There is no big dealAda OnishowoI will not fight with him at all. I will close back the wardrobe. I will ask him in a way that he will have no choice but to tell me the truth and the reason behind it. So far he is my husband, there is no big deal. If the charms are for evil, I will tell him to remove them, but if they are for good, he can leave them. I would even be happy I saw it not too late. Walking out of the marriage is no point here, but working things out is the best solution.I’ll divorce him
Jumoke Olatunde
As a Christian, it is against my belief to have anything to do with charms. I will inform his parents and file for divorce. I am not interested in what the charm is used for. He might be planning to use it against me or for my protection; I don’t care whatever he is using it for. Divorce will be the solution because I can’t live with a diabolical man. I will definitely take my children along with me and he is allowed to come and visit them whenever he wants to see us.I’ll pretend I didn’t see it
Adeparusi Olukemi
Marriage is different from dating; this is why one must learn to apply wisdom in a desperate situation like this. I will not confront him. I will even pretend as if I didn’t see the charm. I know that most times, when a third person sees a charm, it might not be effective again. If he pesters me too much, then I will tell him I saw it. After that, he would explain why he brought charms into our home. I will pray to God to protect me and my children.I’ll let him be if the charms are for good
Kafayat Oladejo
First, I will be shocked, but if he explains why it is so, I would agree because trust is needed here. Men are smart, so one must deal with them wisely. In marriage, you have to be wise in taking decisions. I will ask him what he is doing with it and how he came about it. I will advise we keep it a secret if it is for good, but if it is for evil, I will cry out to people.If we don’t have kids, I’ll divorce her
Dayo Oshun
My knowledge about charm is that it could be used for evil or good. If she could tell me the truth about how she came about the charm, I will forgive her if it is for good, but if it is for evil, we might separate. My religion is definitely against it. I will divorce her if she doesn’t have kids for me. Living with a person who is evil is evil. I can’t live with a woman who is evil.I’ll let it go
Jossy Ogbo
I can’t kill myself. No one is perfect. Christ is everything in our lives. She will have to go back to her knees and seek for forgiveness. If God can forgive her, that is all. I am not interested in what she is doing with it. I will encourage her to accept Christ and I will let the matter go because walking out of the marriage is not the best. A known devil is better than an unknown angel.I may never trust her again
Prince Ceejay
Finding a bag of charms in her wardrobe will reduce the level of trust and love I have for her. I believe in mutual understanding. Seeing that she never communicated with me before bringing in the charms might suggest many things to me. It will only take God’s grace to gain my trust back because I will involve both parents in the matter. I will not divorce her, but I will warn her.I’ll forgive herMerayebu IsaacI will forgive and encourage her to avoid such action next time. I will dialogue with her based on the biblical viewpoint of such action. I will give her orientation on the negative effect of what she has done. I will counsel her and pray she becomes born again. I will let her know she does not need charms for whatever reason. She needs God.I’ll pardon her if the charms aren’t harmful
Micheal Oluwatobi
I will confront her to tell me what the charms are meant for. She might have brought them for my own protection, who knows? But if the case is different, then something must be done. Though it is against my religion, if it is not meant to harm me, I will pardon her and then preach Jesus to her and continue to pray for her.
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