hehehehe..............It’s no news that people cheat in
relationships, an incident that has accounted for the break-up of many
marriages. Meanwhile, there are always different excuses people give
when caught cheating in a relationship, with the hope that their
partners will be convinced enough to forgive them. Fidelis Chidi Blog
therefore, asked some Nigerians whether a relationship could go back to
normal if one of the partners cheated
Trust would be lost
Bolaji Oluseyi
I don’t think the relationship can
remain the same again. Once a partner cheats, there will be distrust.
For instance, if my partner cheated, I would not be able to trust her
totally again even if I still loved her. If I travelled somewhere alone,
I might start imagining what she might be doing while I’m not around.
Infidelity is a serious issue. The best thing to do to keep a
relationship glowing is to be faithful to each other.
It can’t be normal again
Ojo Bukky
I don’t believe that kind of
relationship can be back to normal. If there was an act of infidelity in
a marriage, distrust would be created immediately, making it impossible
to trust each other fully again. That’s why it’s always better to be
disciplined as a couple. Whatever you are looking for outside is right
beside you.
No, it’s like scar on the heart
Amadi Glory
From my point of view, the relationship
can’t be normal again. This is because distrust will be created. Sure,
they might not separate due to the infidelity, but deep down in their
hearts, they would know things are not normal again. I am sure the one
who was cheated on would always remember the incident. It’s like a scar
on the heart.
Deep love would be gone
Iyiola Lowo
It only takes God’s grace for the
relationship to work again. First, the cheating partner would not always
feel comfortable afterwards, while the partner cheated upon would not
find it easy to love deeply again. That’s why I said it is only by God’s
grace that the couple can sustain their relationship.
It’d be hard to restore the relationship
Amax Sarah
It will be hard for such a relationship
to be fully restored. Infidelity is hurtful than one could imagine. Let
me also say that the maturity of the partner who was cheated on also
matters. But even at that, the only thing a mature person would probably
do is that they would not separate or file for divorce. They would feel
disturbed in their heart anytime they remember the incident.
Love, trust would be absent afterwards
Don Roberts
If one of the partners cheated, my take
is that the partner cheated upon would find it very difficult to find
love again in their spouse. Apart from love that would be gone, trust
would also go. So, what’s left when love and trust are absent in a
relationship? Nothing. To me, the relationship is dead.
There’d be hatred in the long run
Stella Akpan
Thinking about the act of infidelity can
create hypertension. So, the best thing is to forget about the issue or
go for the alternative. That’s why it’s advisable to leave a
relationship or partner one can’t cope with again due to an act of
infidelity. Let’s be sincere, the relationship can never be normal
again. Even if you were a pastor or imam, you’d always think about the
incident once in a while, which might fuel hatred in the relationship.
Discipline is key in marriage
Layo Olukokun
I always say that apart from love,
discipline is very important in marriage. After wedding, many
temptations would arise and if any of the partners falls into one, it
would create problems for the marriage. It can result to the crash of
the marriage, no matter how long it’s been built. In essence, that
relationship can’t be fully restored again.
The relationship can’t remain same again
Igarando Sweeny
Undoubtedly, the partner who was cheated
on would not forget about the incident even if they forgave their
cheating spouse. We have heard of cases of infidelity resulting to
murder of the cheating spouse.
Things can still work out
Sanusi Ganiu
Depending on the maturity of the partner
who was cheated upon, I believe the relationship could still work
again. Of course, it might not be easy to get it back on track soon, but
in the long run, if there is forgiveness, a broken heart can still be
restored.
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